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Friday, November 20, 2009
Ha, purely felt bored so came in to blog a little while, tomorrow will be going to Malaysia. Well basically is a weekly routine that will go in with dearie.Looking forward to meet him tomorrow! Miss him everyday, though we have quarrels and urgements at times. But it still don't stop me from loving him day by day! =)
I so bored so decided this entry to write some stories to ease my boredness.. Hope you guys enjoy!
*(comments below is purely illustration, no offence to anyone)
hmm.. while doing typing in this blog, i recall some stuffs whereby it's bothers me alot. How shall i put it? Sometimes i feel that people easily believes other person words, and fail to determine who is right or wrong and jump into conclusion. What's even more pissed is after believing that person words and comment which is so unfair! Take example, personally i've heard people telling me this,
A: Hey, do you believes that someone was gossiping about you
me: What they were talking about?
A: They were saying that your are with a doctor and you guys are married with kids.
me: HUH! do i look like i'm married with kids? Come on, why do people say that?
A: You used to be very close with them so they misunderstands that. And, there's a person been spreading..
me: dotz.. If that's the way, which means that i have lots of doctors boyfriend and get married many times? Has people out of their minds?
A: well, basically people is been jealous what you've last time, and they couldn't get their attentions. So they make use of you by carrying tales about you. In order to grab their attention.
me: Is not been fair to me, it's been such a long time i wasn't working there. And, been marked that i am with a doctor and have kids! is totally ridiculous!
A: hmm.. people don't understand that, often they thinks that they are right. However, many times they're the one's who have motives/ so unclear of thinking and wanted to get themselves a good catch. Regardless, what is the scenrio humans just been humans. Don't get it too hard, so long you know yourself and your conscious is clear.
me: i have to accept that..
As you can see i face many this kind of people, and mainly they want to grab some certain people attention and say things which is untrue. And such, they have committed deflemation. Recently, got knew some new friends, and happens that they are such assholes around. Bitching people, saying things so untrue. And black mark this people, who climb much faster than them, or even more contribution.
At times, you have to face the facts that if this person is not a trustworthy kind so why should you want to still believes the person at the first place? Don't you see clearly see this person characters has problems and so uneithical. And yet, you still choose to believes whatever this person says and protray yourself as you're right.
This proves to me your judgemental has some problem. Or even, in fact you're belong to the same group of people? Well, you know yourself well much better than me.
Another base on true story (sorry can't reveal, story from a very good friend of mine who know her from years), whereby this particular person carrying tales on the gf who his ex is currently with, here is the short story:
During their relationship, they met alot of problems and the guy has totally lost the interest with this gal as she kept asking for breakups. Due to many times she did that, so the guy decided to leave her. However, the guy did not tells her clearly so this relationship keep on dragging and dragging. When meeting their common friends they act as if they're still together, but in fact they are no longer the same.
So one fine day, that guy took all his courages to woo another gal who he likes and decided to confess and told her exactly what he's facing right now. Though they have yet to start the relationship but they clearly know that they were meant to be together. Meanwhile, his gf sms-ed him telling him that they are over. So he decided to get together with the gal who he loves.
Everything was perfectly fine after he has already left the gal who he had no longer love. Until, during his blissful period his ex sms-ed and even called him to screw him for looking for another gal. Which totally puzzled the couple, thinking that it have been resolved before they were together. So he decided to clear the matter, before his love will be marked as third party. He have made himself very clear to the gal. However, this gal carrying tales to her other friends saying that his ex got himself another gal and ask for breakup.
This gal also go to the extend and make herself sounds so depesrate wanting his ex attention. She clearly knows that he will not give her anymore attention. But still, she still wants to grab the attention and resort many ways in order to get his attention. But still she wasn't given the attention she wants and gradually she stops. Somehow, she stills behind their backs carrying tales to others saying that the gal who is with her ex has took him away from her. But in actual fact, it was her who destroy the whole relationship.
This story very much like mine but mine is a little more. Whenever i recalls it, it's irks me! I believes not only me or my gal friend met this such encounters. I believe there is others who have the same as we do. Many people tends to do that when they want to get back their ex. (definitely not me!) =P
But did you ever ask why at the first place you are facing this, do ever reflect in fact you are the one who destroy the relationship and push the blames on others. Wants to prove to people that you're right and other party is wrong? This tells me that you're totally childish! In relationships, there is no right or wrong. It's says to compromise with each other, not just you yourself controlling the whole relationship.
If you would've compromise i believes you won't face much problems. But however, it's also to see whether you guys really meant for each other. If not, just let the person go and pursue what he/she wants. Love a person doesn't mean to possess them, if really can't work out than release them. if they feel happy and you will be happy too rather than keep holding a relationship which has no result. Well, say is easy but how many people truly understand the true meaning of love. As for me, i am still learning.. i have not yet know the true meaning.. But definitely what i know is i love my dearie very very much, by seeing him happy i'll be contented. =)
That's all follks! Hope you guys will enjoy the story that i've blog.. i think i've been too bo liao to blog that much.. least this could help me to improve more on my English writing.. =P if i recall anymore interesting one's i will blog again. That is for today blogging..!!